There are numerous ways to discover if your spouse is cheating on you. Usually there’s a significant and sudden change in his/her behavior. Your spouse wants to go out alone or shows no interest in having sex with you or he/she loses any true affection towards you and the rest of your family.
Here’s a list of critical signs that may help you find out the truth.
– He/she starts telling lies for no reason.
– He/she starts coming home at unusual times and refuses to give any rational explanation.
– He/she suddenly starts exercising or going to the gym.
– He/she buys a whole new wardrobe of fancy and flashy clothes.
– He/she buys a new perfume/cologne.
– He/she starts a new diet
– He/she suddenly changes his/her driving pattern.
– He/she buys new hot/sexy underwear.
– He/she starts spending more money without giving any explanation.
What should your first reaction be, if you discover your spouse is cheating on you?
First of all don’t panic. Stay calm. You don’t want your spouse to know you suspect him/her. This is sometimes really difficult but you should treat your spouse the same way as you did before suspecting him/her. Be an observer. Let your spouse show his/her cheating behavior. Give him/her and yourself some time before you act (but not too much).
Then it’s time to act. Maybe it would be a good idea to hire a professional private investigator or buy surveillance equipment and use it yourself. But first it would be a good idea to start playing a game. Make false plans and announce them to your husband (e.g. a trip to your mother’s house or a weekend with a friend for fishing). Then park your car near your house and observe what will happen. It may take some time and maybe you’ll get no luck the first time you try this, but I am sure if your spouse is a cheater he/she will fall into the trap immediately.
So unfortunately you now know that your spouse is cheating on you. Do you have a plan to accept the consequences? What do you intend to do now? Maybe you should think about that before even trying to confirm your suspicions. Don’t forget that marriage is a strange phenomenon that happens to human beings. And the best part is, both the unmarried and the married are unhappy, though for completely different reasons, one for not being married, and the other for being married!
If you suspect your spouse may be cheating on you then you are about to discover what they’ve been doing, when they’ve been doing it, who they’ve been doing it with and a lot more by using the techniques described in this guide about how to catch a cheating spouse. There’s also a free newsletter jam-packed with the hottest information to help you catch your cheating spouse plus true life stories of how people have caught their spouses cheating on them.