The age old question: should I leave him or should I stay around? This is a question that runs through every woman’s mind at least once in her life, and the decision can be excrutiatingly difficult. If you know — or you suspect you know — that your relationship just isn’t good for you anymore, how do you know when it’s time for a new boyfriend?
When enough is enough. Have you ever found yourself so tired of one thing that your significant other does that you just can not handle anymore? There comes a time when a girl just can’t deal with this stress anymore and there is nothing left to do to fix the problem. You have tried talking to them about it. You have tried talking to others about it. You have even tried hinting multiple things at them to fix it but the problems remains the same and un-fixed.
This can not only cause much stress on you but always trying to fix a problem that you see wrong that your significant other does not see wrong will only drive them further away. It makes the problem seem even worse than it did before you tried fixing it, and it will just be that much more difficult to resolve. If you can’t handle your boyfriend’s idiosyncrasies and quirks anymore, it might be time to get a new boyfriend.
When you find yourself not smiling as much anymore. I know everyone can think back on a time that all they felt was happiness in their lives no matter what was going on. This is how you should feel everyday with your significant other. You should not be upset more than you are happy. You also should be smiling a lot more than usual knowing the fact that you have someone around that you love and hopefully feels the same way about you. If this is not the case then maybe you should see if the reason you are not as happier anymore and times were better in the past has anything to do with you and your significant others relationship.
When all of the arguments are one-sided. Everyone in any type of relationship has arguments but if you are the only one that seems to be arguing the most and seeing no results from these daily arguments it could be time to move on and find someone that better suits you. Not one person deserves to have the stress of arguments on their shoulders everyday, and not one person deserves that something they find important is never resolved for them. Everyone deserves to have someone that will not only resolve issues that need to be resolved but argue with them in order to seek a better end result. All arguing needs to be solved and arguing should never be one sided. Two people, in love should be able to get an argument over quickly in order to resolve and fix all problems that need to be resolved.
When you find yourself going to someone else with a problem instead of your significant other. Every single person out there finds themselves facing a problem at sometime in their life, but shouldn’t they seek help from their significant other? The answer to that question is yes. You should never find yourself turning to someone else for help when your help should be right next to you. The point in having a boyfriend is to have someone you love and trust near you a lot of the time to not only love you but to help you through all of the things that you end up going through. You should never go through hard times alone or without your significant other.
Now if any of these problems you see you have, do not just jump up and leave this man but try and talk to him. If problems can not be resolved by telling the one you love how you feel than it might just be time to find someone else that you can work on a relationship with. No one wants to leave someone or be left. but sometimes people are not right for each other.