The temper of a man against a woman is a horrific thing. It is baffling for a man with so much strength to beat on a woman who by no means is his equal in strength. Some may have child hood trauma, but through these trials we are all suppose to learn something from it by not repeating it blindly. This lack of self-control beating a female or child shows the willingness to hurt those close to him rather than the maturity of confronting the real problem. Some get an early wake up call to seek therapy while others learn through the irreversible act of beating her or the child to death then having to go to prison. Sometimes it is the victim herself who kills him, and goes to prison. I’m here to tell you that you victims have gone through enough even the male victims of domestic abuse should not allow it to get too far. The truth is your life and the lives of your children are worth so much to God. You cannot be devoted to him like a doormat when his only concern is to lick his own wounds. You must safely GET OUT!
HOW TO ESCAPE
First of all, do not give any indication that you are planning to leave or else he will find more ways to hurt you, lock you in or kill you. Remember the quote ” If I can’t have you nobody will!” Do not argue or try to fight him in any way. Be meek and humbled careful not to disturb him. If both of you do not work, you must wait until he is out of the house to do anything. Find an intelligent friend you trust to help you by hiding your and your children’s bags of stuff you want to take away with you. If you do not have a friend and you kids are in school get them. Make sure you know the name of a covenant home in another state or town he wouldn’t’t expect. Get your important papers, so you won’t be empty-handed. Keep pictures of how you look after he abuses you. File a restraining order against him, and tell only the people you love where you are when you arrive to another place. My great grandmother had to take her four children into the night once her drunken abuser left the house. She lived free to the age of 89. I am hoping and praying that you will find your way to freedom and long life.