If you have problems with a ex girlfriend or ex boyfriend stalking then you first need to call the police. You need to document and write down everything that the stalker is doing. Make sure to write down the times and dates. Put an end to all contact. Tell the stalker to please stop contacting you and stop following you. If the stalker doesn’t stop then tell the person that you are going to contact the police.
Make sure to save all evidence of the person stalking you. Please make sure to save voice mail messages or e-mail messages. Save any evidence. Make sure to keep a copy of all incoming and outgoing phone call records. You need to save the evidence in order to get a restraining order against the individual. Now, most people will stop stalking you if you threaten to go the police. Some of them don’t realize what they are doing is considered stalking. If you get a restraining order then the person can get arrested or in trouble if they ever contact you again. A restraining order makes it so that they can’t show up your house and the person can’t show up to the place that you are employed at.
If you get a restraining order against a stalker then make sure to leave a copy of the restraining order papers in your car. Make sure to leave a copy of the restraining order papers at your place of employment with your employer. Also make sure that your neighbors know about it so they make sure you are safe. If it makes you feel more safe then you might want to get a roommate or move to another place so that the stalker doesn’t know where your new house is.
Tell your friends and family members that you have a restraining order on the stalker . Make sure that your employer has a picture of the stalker if possible. When an individual just won’t leave you alone then you need to get an restraining order to get the point across that they aren’t allowed to you anymore. It is a privilege in the states to talk to someone, but it isn’t a right. A restraining order takes away that person rights to talk to you since they abused that privilege.
Most of all just be safe and do the right thing by calling the police. Get a restraining order in order to keep peace between you and the stalker. Most stalkers will eventually leave you alone if you change your phone number and get a new job and move to a different place. If you don’t answer your phone or respond back to them eventually they get tired and forget about bugging you. Most stalkers just want attention. If they don’t get attention then they will get tired of it.
Change your email address if you need to. Block his email address so he or she can’t email you if its an option in your e-mail box. If you use instant messages make sure to block his or her name so they can’t harass you.