The course of true love never quite runs smooth, as the old adage goes.
This is especially accurate for those women who have found themselves bruised and hurting from a romantic relationship that ended badly. Most of us, at some time or other, have suffered from the emotional pain connected with a breakup, a betrayal or a rejection and the majority of us simply do our best to recover and move on with our lives.
Not all members of our sex are as resilient. Some feel the compulsion to vent their rage towards the individuals who broke their hearts.
It isn’t surprising that there are websites that caters to those who crave a little retribution towards their former romantic partners.
Here is an example of some sites whose goal is help them:
For bitter, dejected and spurned lovers, this website claims to offer all they need to seek retribution against the object of their scorn.
The Payback sell such products as dead flower arrangements, dead fish, melted chocolate, letters regarding body odor and bad breath, which can all be sent to a recipient, anonymously.
I personally would not want to spend my money on a gift for some creep, even if it’s an insulting gift, but it seems to make some women feel better if they can get back at whoever hurt them.
Some deem a place like this to be rather cathartic.
Those who desire to vent about the men who did them wrong can do so on this site.
There is a message board where disgruntled exes can bad mouth the men who cheated on them, used them, etc., as well as tell about any women they cheated with. The big thing here is that they provide the names of the offending parties, even though the people posting the information are able to remain anonymous. Although the aim is supposed to help other women avoid the specific guys mentioned on the message board, the reality is that this strictly out of a wish to administer some brutal revenge.
Talk about raw, oozing rage! You will find it clearly demonstrated on CheaterNews.com.
Woman Savers also has a message board where unforgiving ladies can rant about males who have abused, lied or cheated on them. There is a “Rate-a-Guy” form where they can enter the name of the man in question and give feedback from and give warnings to others who may be in danger of encountering the despicable beast.
In all fairness, they do have a section in their message board area where men can post their questions and concerns, even tell their own stories of being cheated on by wives and girlfriends.
Products are also available for purchase, such as Woman Saver tees, hats, mugs, key chains and the like, as well as books, computer monitoring software and the consulting services of a relationship expert.
As tempting as it may seem to utilize websites like this, eventually the time must come to choose to let go of all the fury.
Sending nasty gifts and announcing to the world wide web that some dude is a dirty scoundrel may cause him a little bit of irritation, but it’s unlikely that the person you are getting back at will suffer anything more than a slightly beat-up ego. The chances are that he will shrug it off and go about his business, while you are still left behind nursing your grudge.
Forgiveness isn’t easy and it doesn’t mean that, because you decide to forgive, the person who hurt you becomes a saint. He may remain the same “dawg” he has always been, but you will no longer be under his power, if you release your anger.
It will enable you to go forward with your life and, hopefully, find a positive, loving relationship with somebody else. Even if you don’t find another relationship right away, you can still move ahead to be productive and happy, whether you have a man or not.
As another old adage says: “The best revenge is success“.